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ABOUT BRIDIE ELLEN

I'm not your coach.
I'm the woman who
went first.

I spent years numb, disconnected & convinced something was wrong with me. Nobody told me the truth about how desire works. So I found it & built a space where other women could too.

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MY STORY

I know what it
feels like 
to feel
nothing.

I left a relationship completely numb. Not sad, not angry — just gone. I lived in fight or flight for years trying to fix something that was never broken. Because nobody had ever told me the truth about how desire actually works.

When I finally got that education — responsive desire, the nervous system, how emotional safety IS foreplay — everything shifted. Not because I fixed anything. Because I finally understood something for the first time.

 

So I trained as a Somatic Sex and Relationship Coach, Breathwork Facilitator and completed Gottman relationship training.

 

Not to build a career but to become the person I needed when I was in the fog.

Certified Somatic Sex & Relationship Coach ·  Breathwork Facilitator · Gottman Trained

"Bridie created a space that felt safe, calm and free of judgment."

Abbie · The Desire Reclaimed Method
WHAT TO EXPECT

What it's actually like
to work with
me.

I work alongside you — not in front of you

The session follows you, not a formula. I'll bring expertise but I'm not performing a service for you. I'm in it with you, so you're never alone in this work.

I'm honest — not just kind

I'll tell you what's actually true, clearly & without judgment. Because you deserve honesty more than comfortable reassurance.

Nothing surprises me

Say the thing you've never said. The thing you're embarrassed about. I've heard it all  (& i've probably thought it or  been there myself).

I've done my own work

I've walked through the numbness & came out the other side. That's why I can sit with you in it — without getting scared, with understanding & patience.  

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"Bridie knew exactly when to guide and when to just be there."

Henna · 1:1 Intensive

"The world would be a much better place if more women felt safe enough to experience real pleasure & had a few more orgasms along the way."

BRIDIE · MY PURPOSE
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MY TRAINING

I know what  i'm doing.

I trained extensively — not to collect certificates, but to be able to sit with you in the most vulnerable parts of this work & actually know how to help.

— Certified Somatic Sex  Coach

— Certified Breathwork & Trauma Aware Facilitator

— Gottman Relationship Training

— Specialises in desire, communication, consent & sexual education

Southern Highlands NSW · Available Online Worldwide
Free · 20 minutes · No obligation

Not sure if I'm right for you?

That's exactly what the discovery call is for. Twenty minutes. An honest conversation. You'll know by the end.

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